Tremendous. I bet our Football in the Community staff are doing cartwheels again. Have I missed the fact that we've got some sponsorship deal with the probation service?
Hope Tony and Redders do right thing and send him back otherwise how can we claim to be a family club , absolutely appalling behaviour , may be a bit old fashioned but males beating ladies no matter how bad they act it's not acceptable. You will hear me booing him from the West stand on Saturday If he turns out , makes me want to vomit .
It's an old story this one in many ways. Footballers out drinking, getting into scrapes, getting into bother. Should clubs employ people who have a criminal past? Are players role models? What gets to me is the hypocrisy of it. Our club like every other is at the heart of the town and the community. We send players into schools and hospitals and do important community work. We do that because we feel we have obligation to and (let's be candid) because it grows grass roots support which is good for business long term. Footballers need to understand what their employers stand for or purport to stand for and either buy into it or accept that they might be unemployable. There are some jobs you just can't do if you are not of good character, and because of what clubs are and what they represent being a pro footballer should be one of them. If you want to get smashed on a Saturday night and fight with girls in the street fine (well not fine but you know what I mean) but you lose the opportunity to represent a professional community football club. Yet in the pursuit of short term results (1) the club will employ anyone no matter what their history or character as long as they can score a goal or get us a win and (2) the majority of supporters will sit or stand there and cheer them on. We will even employ someone at the helm who is a self confessed football related fraudster because he is 'a winner'. I suppose the question is whether or not you would sacrifice what you say you stand for in order to get a quick result. If I could find a smily face equivalent to convey 'ashamed' I would place it here.
-- Edited by smiler on Friday 4th of December 2015 07:26:35 AM
He's a young lad who has had far too much to drink and lost control. The club obviously need to make it clear that one mishap and he's gone, probably along with his career.Â
Sometimes you don't get a second chance. I don't buy the 'young man with too much ale in him' line. He is/was an adult. Behave like that and there are some things you can't then do. Actions have consequences. Anyone with a conviction like that will struggle ever to be a policeman, a a prison officer, a lawyer, a teacher or any jobs working with kids (and lots of other jobs besides). I have never been a saint but I managed to reach my forties without headbutting any women and I don't think I am unique. We are a community club. These young lads have a chance to make a great living playing football if they can keep their heads down and look after themselves for a few years. If they can't take that chance too bad.
Everyone is entitled to make a mistake. If sober, I should guess it would not have happened. I am 42 and I have never head butted a girl. I have however driven far too fast and got away with it. Things could have turned out differently and I could have caused an accident and injured someone. Should that be me finished or should I serve my punishment, learn my lesson and then continue with my life?
If I did it again then fair enough, I deserve everything I get.
Because some jobs involve you working in a position of trust or responsibility you simply don't get a second chance if you have or want one of those jobs and you commit a serious offence. Further example - Lenighan probably wouldn't now ever get a job as a teaching assistant or a licence to be a doorman. That is how it is. That isn't my opinion, it is a fact. My point is that we say we are a community football club and representing the club is part and parcel of what players are expected to do. That being the case the same criteria must apply - commit certain offences and we can't employ you any longer.
I have to say Im not in favour of giving him a second chance, especially so close to the offense.
As football is, he will be luckly to get a second chance due to the short nature of it.
I think, however arbitrary it seems, that he needs to be clean for quite a long time before he goes near anything like a job that involves such public connections.
The seriousness of the crime lies in the distasteful nature of it and the fact he was just cleared of rape. I think breaking the speed limit is clearly a judgment call based on conditions and though it could certainly be called reckless and one would be punished for it or any consequent injury caused, it is not the same as actually purposefully headbutting and hitting several women after you have pursued them and got yourself involved in something that has nothing to do with you. I would say the same even if he did have a personal stake in it but Im just pointing out the full conditions in which he was violent.
Stupidity can be devastating but using your fists as a weapon on those who are not violent and weaker than you is despicable and suggests something fundamental about ones control and beliefs.
There has always been blokes who knock women about, it seems to be getting a more common occurrence these days. Before it used to be mainly domestic and usually from a generation not so long ago when some men viewed wives as chattels to be controlled. It still happens of course, but does seem to have become a late night club door event between the popped up young. I've never hit a woman nor ever would, I really cant grasp the mentality of these guy who seem to think it is acceptable.